Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

Point being - Marriage seems to be good to others - it's not - it has no passion in it - and two people come to live together as room mates and share their expense - to keep their secret from others the lips get sealed - of having separate beds and separate accounts

Millions of excuses - Reasons - constant fighting - arguments- And always something wrong with the other- no self reflection -

so begins the first step heading towards separation and divorce which becomes the battle ground- my TV - my sofa - my bed - my - my - my ……..

Joe Biden is not the best president we had. That would be John F. Kennedy. How is voting for Donald Trump any worse than voting for Joe Biden?

Grass looks green elsewhere - begins the cheating - And to get what - ? SEX.

For exciting and intensely satisfying sex that is deprived or denied or not understood of each other's needs - quick judgments " My husband watches porn " If it's not porn - it's his drinking - he spends more time with his friends- he doesn't share the work around the house - he doesn't talk - doesn't respect my family - not working enough - Headaches - Fibromyalgia- TMJ - size - ED and the list grows from a page to a size of 2 PDR's.

My own imperfections is not the reason - you see …. !

Women like what they hear while men like what they see, it that true?

Nothing perfect - It's not acceptable if it's not perfect - but only the other one !